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I think I handle the lonliness a little better than most because I was an only child and like having my alone time. All this actually needs is some stamps, pre-printed envelopes, and a few seconds to dash off a note, kiss the paper, and drop it in a mailbox.
At least people of different races are aware of those differences, and are on alert to deal with them. Not the end of the world.